❤️ L-o-v-e love this line, Tabula: "My job is to guide him along his path, not put up roadblocks."

Your son is 18 months old—do what you feel keeps him safe. Your ex needs to exert control, be seen and heard—his responsibility to heal. Hope he does.

Keep being the parent your child needs, communicate and he will learn from you.

P.S. I loved our kiddie pool on hot sweltering days:)))