❤️ Hi Conni, so so sorry for your loss and the situation you faced after he died. Society can be so unkind and cruel to those grieving.
You spent a lifetime and had children with him. No one decides for you for whom you grieve.
So sorry that friends and family behaved so poorly towards you.
We recently attended a funeral and the ex-wife sat with family in the front row. Because a mother will sit with her children ~ why would she not?
Sending a big hug