The adult tantrum is the inner child who has had enough:( Most of us have never been modelled how to discharge anger in healthy ways. And as you noted well, TzeLin, it’s regarded as a “negative” emotion. And yet, it’s part of our human experience. Suppress anger and your organs will weep. Sooner or later, that energy will eat away at your being. It’s important to reframe anger and how it can move us forward.