Oh, what a hot topic, Pene:)

Gender is a social construct, which creates so many issues when one is told how to behave and/or does not feel they fit into those stereotypes.

You can identify as female, but that does not mean you have to wear makeup, heels and dresses, as examples. These traits stem from patriarchal influences over women.

I believe we all carry Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine traits (which are not gender-based) and our life experiences can tip the balance to one side or the other. Trying to balance them is key.