Hi Leigh, family dynamics are never easy. Generational trauma. It took courage to set off at 21.

Screaming, berating, for hours is indicative of their regrets, their internal suffering. Walk away from anyone who does not respect you, your choices and your boundaries.

Healthy relationship allow for a difference of opinion. Your family, like mine and ,man others, suffer with adults who are still children screaming to be seen, validated and heard. They can't hear you. They most likely never will.

We are all on a spiritual path. Acceptance of where it starts and letting go. Family is not only those by blood line,

Send love, wish them well and keep them at a safe distance.

Self-love sets boundaries, focus on your inner healing and continue to walk away when love is missing. Hoping you find inner peace by your own decisions.