Hi Kat, there is so much we have yet to learn.
Recently in a Reiki session, I came across knowledge. Always thought once we crossed over, we would see everyone there. Not true.
My mother had not met up with my grandfather nor the child she lost because of him.
They hadn’t interacted until I passed along information they needed to move on. ,
Once I gave them this information, the communication ceased.
Whatever happened, what I felt was a huge shift in energy.
We may have to process what happened during this lifetime and as there is no time line, a soul takes its own time.
Which may explain why some are hard to reach. They are still processing and busy.