Family. Kristi, so sorry you had to go through this on top of everything. I hear you and it hurts. They disappear. All you hear is their unbelievable silence.

You have every right to speak your truth.

You will, say what needs to be said and the words will find their way on that day.

Whatever you choose, let it be love that guides you. Giving attention to the wrong ones shines the light away from those who loved and understood Curtis most. Speak of them.

The others will hear the silence ~ by not hearing their name spoken aloud. Let Karna take of them and feel free not to issue an invitation. When you celebrate you deserve to be in the company of pure hearts. The rest can stay home.