Agnes, having lost my father at 25, I feel for you and your words written. Your mom would be proud of the woman you have become, for you follow your dreams, have found love and a life companion. As a mother, that would give me peace.

I am in awe of how much your Mom accomplished while raising 3 children. It’s so easy to compare ourself to another. We can only respond to life by our current stage of awareness. Growth is how we become wiser. Be gentle with yourself, because by living our life, the experiences will teach us.