❤️ Toya, so sorry, you suffered so much from an early age.
I remember the shock andf horror hearing about corporal punishment by belt in my extended family. Broke my heart and still scares me.
Walk the line of perfectionism. That I knew being my mom’s trophy.

❤️ You are brave. Inner work is hard.

Generational trauma continues until one sees it and begins to heal.

Doing your healing protects your children and future generations. That’s one gift of love right there.