❤️ Hi Klara, your family is in survival mode. Fractured families are everywhere. After reading the list sent, I would not attend.
No.3 is the red flag.
No.6 is another red flag.
No.7 is guilt based.
I asked my family to go to counselling. No one accepted.
The best thing to do is to go for yourself and with the one who agreed. Your family is grieving a loss and overwhelmed. Sitting together is overwhelming.
Start healing yourself and healing spreads to others.